what are you? my parents?
Thursday, May 21st, 2009 at 1:43 am. (161 views)Ugh alright so I’m 19 my husband is 21.
He sold his kayak today for $150 bucks.
It’s going towards bills of course.
Before he left for work he gave me $10 bucks to spend.
I work odd jobs here and there selling clothes and doing modeling gigs.
Anyways, tonight we were talking and he said “I didn’t really want to give you $10 bucks because you didn’t do the dishes.”
……are you serious?!
What am I 8?!
We’re married, that 10 bucks should just simple be a
“here honey, treat yourself.”
Not a freaking allowance!
Ughh..
I don’t know but that REALLY set me off.
So I through my beverage can into the sink after being pissed off.
He then yelled “what was that?!”
I turned around and said sweetly, “I’m sorry for throwing my can into the sink, I will place it in it’s proper place.”
And put it in the recycle bin.
He then was quick to reply with a “You always yell at my for doing that!”
HE NEVER CLEANS UP AFTER HIMSELF.
HE EXPECTS ME TO CLEAN UP THIS INSANE APARTMENT ALONE!
WHEN HE MAKES MORE THAN HALF THE MESS!
It makes me want to pull my hair out.
And he thinks his crap don’t stink…….
Ugh, how do I talk to someone like this?!
I think I need a counselor.
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June 1st, 2009 at 9:45 pm
i thionk you need a divorce, kids your age shouldn’t be stupid enopugh to go and get married this aint the 40’s anymore humans are more unpredictable than ever more than likely your marrigae will end in divocre because you fell in lust and not LOVE… and your right he shouldnt be such a lazy fuk and needs to learn how to pick up after himself i mean jesus i used to roof hang sheetrock and build houses there is no way he has a job that is so hard he cant lift a finger to help out for real… but anyways,, you married him so either get it together and deal with it or move the fuk on..
June 23rd, 2009 at 8:16 pm
All young couples or all couples have arguments. If money is tight it is a compounding issue. My goodness he sold his Kayak to pay a bill. It may be that he feels you aren’t pulling your weight in the relationship. Communication is the key. When you married him You made a commitment in the eyes of God. Stop the screaming and start communicating! I’ll bet there is a church in your area that does couples counseling. It will help you two learn how to talk to each other. You can make it! I will be married 30 years this year to the Love of my Youth.