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	<title>Responses on: why..u choose one to marry and want to bringothers in</title>
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		<title>By: morbyd</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Jan 2011 05:27:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I disagree with the whole he's GAY thing.  My husband and I are both bisexual, and the topic of having other people come into our relationship has been talked about plenty of times, it's just not something we're ready for just yet.  I have young children and a baby on the way, so bringing in someone new just isn't a viable option at the moment.  I knew before we got married about him being bisexual, and he knew I was too...it's probably a subject the two of you should have talked about before getting married.  

That being said...it's only going to work if you BOTH want it too...if you both aren't comfortable about having another partner/partners come into your relationship it's NOT going to work and it'll only put a strain on your relationship.  If it's something that he's pushing you to do and you don't feel comfortable about it you need to sit down and talk to him about it.  Explain why you don't feel comfortable.  There's no reason you can't stick to your guns if it's something you don't feel right doing.  If he really cares about you, he should be willing to accept your thoughts and feelings on the matter.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I disagree with the whole he&#8217;s GAY thing.  My husband and I are both bisexual, and the topic of having other people come into our relationship has been talked about plenty of times, it&#8217;s just not something we&#8217;re ready for just yet.  I have young children and a baby on the way, so bringing in someone new just isn&#8217;t a viable option at the moment.  I knew before we got married about him being bisexual, and he knew I was too&#8230;it&#8217;s probably a subject the two of you should have talked about before getting married.  </p>
<p>That being said&#8230;it&#8217;s only going to work if you BOTH want it too&#8230;if you both aren&#8217;t comfortable about having another partner/partners come into your relationship it&#8217;s NOT going to work and it&#8217;ll only put a strain on your relationship.  If it&#8217;s something that he&#8217;s pushing you to do and you don&#8217;t feel comfortable about it you need to sit down and talk to him about it.  Explain why you don&#8217;t feel comfortable.  There&#8217;s no reason you can&#8217;t stick to your guns if it&#8217;s something you don&#8217;t feel right doing.  If he really cares about you, he should be willing to accept your thoughts and feelings on the matter.</p>
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		<title>By: Help Married Men Get Their Wives Back In Bed! &#124; 7Wins.eu</title>
		<link>http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2009/04/05/whyu-choose-one-to-marry-and-want-to-bringothers-in/#comment-6384</link>
		<dc:creator>Help Married Men Get Their Wives Back In Bed! &#124; 7Wins.eu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 17:14:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Bedding Bisexual Beauties For Threesomes Or More. &#124; 7Wins.eu</title>
		<link>http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2009/04/05/whyu-choose-one-to-marry-and-want-to-bringothers-in/#comment-5721</link>
		<dc:creator>Bedding Bisexual Beauties For Threesomes Or More. &#124; 7Wins.eu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 15:29:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Rightful Insane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rightful Insane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2009 15:13:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My ex also talked me into a threesome another woman. . WHICH he taped without my knowledge. He edited the film and passed it around town stating that I was gay. He used the film to divorce me for a woman 26 years younger.  BE CAREFUL.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My ex also talked me into a threesome another woman. . WHICH he taped without my knowledge. He edited the film and passed it around town stating that I was gay. He used the film to divorce me for a woman 26 years younger.  BE CAREFUL.</p>
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		<title>By: trdriver0123</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 03:51:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don't know about the "GAY" thing, but I do know sharing your bed with other people is not a good idea. 20+ years ago ( I was 22) My best friend approched me with sharing his wife. Not a gay thing, but a sex thing. He said she wanted to try that, always a fantasy to her. Soon after we started seeing each other on the side for 3 years, once or twice a month. My friend found out, they split up, they had kids under 10, now broken home. Lost my best friend and caused a family break up, all over some orgasms. Not worth it by any means! My comment to you, and all of us thought at the time nothing like this would happen!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know about the &#8220;GAY&#8221; thing, but I do know sharing your bed with other people is not a good idea. 20+ years ago ( I was 22) My best friend approched me with sharing his wife. Not a gay thing, but a sex thing. He said she wanted to try that, always a fantasy to her. Soon after we started seeing each other on the side for 3 years, once or twice a month. My friend found out, they split up, they had kids under 10, now broken home. Lost my best friend and caused a family break up, all over some orgasms. Not worth it by any means! My comment to you, and all of us thought at the time nothing like this would happen!</p>
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		<title>By: Cry Revolution</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cry Revolution</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 03:49:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am not that secure to bring another person into my bedroom with my spouse. Why do you want that competition ? Don't get me wrong... I handles my business but what if that other person handles their business a little better then you become a spectator.... never a good thing.. think about it .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am not that secure to bring another person into my bedroom with my spouse. Why do you want that competition ? Don&#8217;t get me wrong&#8230; I handles my business but what if that other person handles their business a little better then you become a spectator&#8230;. never a good thing.. think about it .</p>
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		<title>By: LukDragyn85</title>
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		<dc:creator>LukDragyn85</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 15:09:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh please, he's not gay. I'm an open bi female and my fiance is an open bi male. He has been with men, but prefers women. I'm okay with this-how could I not be? Maybe he should have been more open with you BEFORE you got married, or if he was, if you knew you couldn't be cool with an open relationship, you shouldn't have married him.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh please, he&#8217;s not gay. I&#8217;m an open bi female and my fiance is an open bi male. He has been with men, but prefers women. I&#8217;m okay with this-how could I not be? Maybe he should have been more open with you BEFORE you got married, or if he was, if you knew you couldn&#8217;t be cool with an open relationship, you shouldn&#8217;t have married him.</p>
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		<title>By: MakeSense</title>
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		<dc:creator>MakeSense</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 06:05:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm sorry to tell you this, but your man is GAY.  You are a 'front' for him.  Once a man acts on his homosexual tendencies, he won't stop.  Period.  He'll just get sneaky about it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sorry to tell you this, but your man is GAY.  You are a &#8216;front&#8217; for him.  Once a man acts on his homosexual tendencies, he won&#8217;t stop.  Period.  He&#8217;ll just get sneaky about it.</p>
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