why..u choose one to marry and want to bringothers in
(3,434 views)Ok i dont undrstand this so maybe some one can give me some insite to things. I got married to a great man about a year and ahalf ago. I have some emotinal things going on in my life and he was col wit that we have been friends for a while.this is the strange thing. I may have done hings in my past that i regret just like 99% of the human race out there. now both of us have been married before and his last wife was very open about everything including bringing others into there bed. She was also a very sexual person and would nt care where they were when she wanted it she got it. Now me i have small children some with him some not now to me sexual things are to be on the dl when the kids or other ppl are around. That is something that happens with the man that i am married to. Now o find out that he is bi-curious. Yes i my self have been with other women but that was just as privite as what happens with him and me. What should i do should i open upand not be so shy and let him have his way and have ohers join us? or should i stick to my guns? when i was with thewomen i was not in a relationship with him or ne one. Things would be diffrent if we were not together but we are married what is ur opion what should i do?
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MakeSense says:
I’m sorry to tell you this, but your man is GAY. You are a ‘front’ for him. Once a man acts on his homosexual tendencies, he won’t stop. Period. He’ll just get sneaky about it.
LukDragyn85 says:
Oh please, he’s not gay. I’m an open bi female and my fiance is an open bi male. He has been with men, but prefers women. I’m okay with this-how could I not be? Maybe he should have been more open with you BEFORE you got married, or if he was, if you knew you couldn’t be cool with an open relationship, you shouldn’t have married him.
Cry Revolution says:
I am not that secure to bring another person into my bedroom with my spouse. Why do you want that competition ? Don’t get me wrong… I handles my business but what if that other person handles their business a little better then you become a spectator…. never a good thing.. think about it .
An anonymous user says:
I don’t know about the “GAY” thing, but I do know sharing your bed with other people is not a good idea. 20+ years ago ( I was 22) My best friend approched me with sharing his wife. Not a gay thing, but a sex thing. He said she wanted to try that, always a fantasy to her. Soon after we started seeing each other on the side for 3 years, once or twice a month. My friend found out, they split up, they had kids under 10, now broken home. Lost my best friend and caused a family break up, all over some orgasms. Not worth it by any means! My comment to you, and all of us thought at the time nothing like this would happen!
An anonymous user says:
My ex also talked me into a threesome another woman. . WHICH he taped without my knowledge. He edited the film and passed it around town stating that I was gay. He used the film to divorce me for a woman 26 years younger. BE CAREFUL.
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morbyd says:
I disagree with the whole he’s GAY thing. My husband and I are both bisexual, and the topic of having other people come into our relationship has been talked about plenty of times, it’s just not something we’re ready for just yet. I have young children and a baby on the way, so bringing in someone new just isn’t a viable option at the moment. I knew before we got married about him being bisexual, and he knew I was too…it’s probably a subject the two of you should have talked about before getting married.
That being said…it’s only going to work if you BOTH want it too…if you both aren’t comfortable about having another partner/partners come into your relationship it’s NOT going to work and it’ll only put a strain on your relationship. If it’s something that he’s pushing you to do and you don’t feel comfortable about it you need to sit down and talk to him about it. Explain why you don’t feel comfortable. There’s no reason you can’t stick to your guns if it’s something you don’t feel right doing. If he really cares about you, he should be willing to accept your thoughts and feelings on the matter.