Responses on: getting a little too ridiculous

By: encouragingword

encouragingword — Tue, 14 Apr 2009 16:56:03 +0000

I have to agree with Kolobus. You need to ditch this loser. As hard as it may be to do, you wont regret it later on in life when you see his name in the newspaper for beating some defenseless girl half to death. I’m sure Kolobus and myself wouldnt mind paying a visit to this creep so we could have a nice “talk” with him.
This guy is using you as a prize token sweetheart, dont let it fool you into thinking he actually cares. Your young and have your whole life ahead of you. There will be others, and eventually you will find a “man” who will treat you right. Dont get stuck with a guy like this or you will will become accustomed to being treated like a dog. The next time he lays hands on you, just get in touch with me and Kolobus. Then we will show him what its like to be bitch slapped.

By: kolobus

kolobus — Sat, 04 Apr 2009 21:14:51 +0000

well let me say what no one else will.. your a fucking idiot if you stay with that abusive little son of a bitch, i watched my mom get the shit beat out of her all the time because she was as stupid as you, then finally one winter morning when that fuck of a boyfriend was hitting on her she ran outside in her underwear to get away from him leaving us kids in there with him, and i swear to what ever higher power is real that if i was stronger and bigger back then i would have ripped that p.o.s’s fucking throat out with my bare hands.. and sat there looking in to his eyes as his soul left his body.. but that was another life.. if you like getting beat stay with the ass, because one day he will not stop till your dead, let us just hope that you do not have any kids by him cause the thought of a young child going through what i did, pisses me off to no end.. and if you do finally tell him to get the fuck out then you need to go an buy you a pistol or taser and learn how to use it, because guys like that do not leave willingly.. so grow the fuck up get a brain and fucking use it.. sorry i am so harsh but it is tough love baby.. gets people off their asses and doing shit..

By: Pearls

Pearls — Sat, 04 Apr 2009 15:20:07 +0000

Sorry to hear this kind of story. You are a very, very young woman with little life experience. I’m sure your family would be surprised to learn how little you value yourself. I’m sure you would not allow a friend to be treated this way. Take it from a different angle, your relationship hopes are already there. I like being hit, like being cheated on, I like being degraded. I hope to stay in this relationship long enough to have daughters to grow up like me. That is the reality of where you are headed. Why aren’t you looking for a young man who is smart, has focus, has vision for his future? Someone you can study with and cuddle on the couch, someone you can stand with and not behind. Do you think you’ll be alone? Men won’t want you? Walk into the PO dept and tell them you want him to leave and you need advice b/c your afraid of an altercation, or gather male friends, family, coworkers-explain you need people around you when you ask him to go and never contact you again.