he is a douche
(960 views)we have been together for 1 year in febuary
sure i was wrong for violating his privacy and going through his email.
but he was far more wrong than even me.
i thought he had nothing to hide, really he had been faithful for all i knew. i thought i knew him really well. but curiosity killed a year long and pretty good realationship. his messages where hidden in his sved folder under a title “artemis” me thinking pretty cool name gotta be something good, i click it and what do you know, a bunch of
“i love you i miss you i want us to be together” s all over the message.
dumbfounded, i call him upstairs, ask him what the fuck it was and tell him look dude just get the hell out of my house. hes begging to get me back i just laugh and say dude, you fucked up. hes trying to explain “its just a friend its just a friend” yeah, right… so tell me, yall
was i too harsh? is he really a douche? do you think he cheated? was it really a friend? was he truly sorry or did he just want two bitches to screw?
please tell me.
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An anonymous user says:
Whomever your boyfriend was writing to was/is definitely not just a friend. You absolutely did the right thing in kicking him out of your house. He does not deserve to be with you, the a_ _ hole.
constantlyblue says:
The same thing happened to me. It feels horrible, looking through a boyfriend’s e-mails or text messages, but if you didn’t, how would you have ever known what was going on? I found plenty of things, exactly like that, and he always had an excuse for every one of them. Most of the time, he would say that it was a joke, and that he liked messing with people. When I truly think about it, it doesn’t make much sense. You did the right thing. I wish I had as much courage as you.