VideoFitness is soooo Negative.
(5,144 views)I can’t even stand VF anymore. If you like an instructor, say the popular Tracy Anderson, there are a ton of Wicked Wendy suckups that swoop in and berate anyone for liking TA and then, of course, Wicked Wendy the owner comes in and lectures everyone with convoluted VF criteria “you can complain about teachers but not about each other”. Oh, okay mommy. And let’s not forget Deb M who eventually appears and rakes everyone over the coals and is just plain craazee. Then some sane people try to post and they are shot down by the negative hags. Then WWW like a bad parent threatens, (yes, threatens) everyone to behave or “she’ll close the thread.” I can’t tell you how many threads go down this way. To read through them, sorry I feel slimed. Most of them are nutjobs.
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FreeWillie says:
Yea! How about BlackBerry who posts logical and valid points and then W3 sends her this long disciplinary letter telling her what she can and can’t do and then stalker Deb (what happened to her Farrah Fawcet hair grainy pic? the new one is oh so Fatal Attraction) posts all this ‘you’re stupid etc.’ and then Wicked Wendy gives her a tisk, tisk. HELLO?!
alteralter says:
Earth to “Gymratt”, aka “BlackBerry”, and now “FreeWillie” - You pretend your “BlackBerry” on VF, then you respond to your own thread here and attagirl yourself. Wendy is the most mildmannered list admin on the internet. You’re miserable, self absorbed and destructive.
Dakota2 says:
alteralter you sound like one of the negative hags that the OP spoke of.
I read the Deb debacle here on VentPark
http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2008/12/08/spiritual-intervention-for-tracy-anderson-fans-and-victims-2/
and I have to agree that Wendy of VF would have shut her down.
alteralter says:
one tries to speak rationally to the multiple personality, but she just keeps multiplying.
SausagePak says:
Here’s another VF hag to add to the list (hey, let’s make one):
Jane C.
Now, WWW specifically says it’s not okay to discuss the physical features of anyone on a fitness dvd, but here’s a very recent snotty rant from old girl Jane C:
“Tracy’s form is passable. Her shoulder architecture is off - she’s got something going on with her traps that looks maladaptive. There are alot of superfluous moves that are kind of sexually provocative - the pouting, the constant hip popping, the hand flutters - I’m surprised no one has mentioned this - it really struck me.”
Awww, dang. Broke the rule and Wicked Wendy let it slide. Again.
Jane C was as catty as it gets being a B about TA’s dvd. If she tried the workout she may be able to get that cob to drop out of her butt.
One more: SharonNYC. Check out her pic with her statement of TA:
“I like the power pout. I’m going to have to develop one.”
SharonNYC WISHES she had a pout and not the VF hag look. Some shampoo would help. And/or a haircut. Or new sunglasses. Okay, no picture at all would be better.
alteralter says:
GymRatt has a new multiple - SausagePak, aka PakRatt, aka Blackberry aka FreeWillie aka Dakota. Whats up with all the phallic symbols?
An anonymous user says:
First of all I don’t agree with all of the remarks made about VF. The remarks made of SharonNYC were unwarrented. Anyone who has been around VF knows that Sharon is a smart lady and a Yoga Purist. So her remarks about TA workout shouldn’t have been taken seriously. Remember that Sharon enjoys Yoga daily. Now the comments about DebM well that is another story. This woman is very forthright. She feels that because she has all this knowledge and the degrees (that she won’t let all of VF be privy too) to go with it, that she can spout off to her hearts content. Well the truth is that while she may be knowledgeable the regular VFer just wants to enjoy their workouts. Whether they are TA, CLX or David Kirsch’s. I myself would like to enjoy any workout and be able to comment on it without the “Knowledge Police” disecting it to death. That just sucks the joy out of it. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. Let it go DebM can you just shut your mouth and let the people who are actually doing whatever workouts TA or CLX just comment in peace and enjoy them if they enjoy them. Must you suck out all the fun on various threads. I liked it better when you were away for a while. I don’t mind some educational infomation but you have just taken over certain threads to death. Its like you can’t control yourself. It has stopped being enjoyable to be able to comment about something without you having to throw your two cents in. Enough is enough. If you must show off your learned brain than post that if anyone would like more education on the subject matter that they can PM you. That way the rest of us won’t have to scroll through a myriad of your knowledge that is so boundless.
An anonymous user says:
Another issue going on at VF. I personally enjoy reviews on workouts. But I must say that they are only worth reading if the individual hasn’t received the workout for free. I think this clouds the review. If I didn’t pay for it than it hasn’t cost me anything other than my time to do the workout. If I am getting something for free I have nothing bad to say because I would want more workouts for free. “Toaster” or “Dr.Beth” needs to control herself on giving reviews with all the freebie workouts she gets. I would like more reviews from people who actually pay for their workouts. To me they are more truthful.
An anonymous user says:
It’s not just Toaster/Dr. Beth who gets tons of free workouts because she gives mostly positive reviews. DeniseR is another one who does the same but isn’t always upfront about it.
I don’t mind the negativity at VF, because you can get useful nuggets from the good and the bad, although it is definitely a harsher site than some and way overmoderated.
An anonymous user says:
There seems to be a higher population wanting to jump on a thread and diminish the love flowing just for sport. Or ego.
I noticed that a couple more threads were closed down today which reinforces the toddler antics of these middle aged women.
If the moderators want to moderate something, how about DebbieM.
An anonymous user says:
I agree Denise R should also stop writing reviews because she does get workouts for free and withholds this information sometimes. Besides her reviews are useless I never bother with them. If you are going to write a review be honest and write more than two lines about it. Its as though she gets the workouts for free and then couldn’t be bothered to say much about it. Than why the heck did you want it to begin with idiot.
I agree that some negative feedback is fine but everything has limits. I feel that some don’t know when to stop. Everything in balance is best.
The moderators should be moderating DebM who really needs to stop regurgitating everything she learned in school. If we all wanted and encyclopedia we would have asked for one.
Maybe also the few who found that they had to reprimand those who spoke out about DebM’s comments on another board could just shut up now on this one. This is after all a “Vent” place. If they found it so bad they should not have continued reading the thread. Instead they read it curiously and then reprimanded everyone over at VF. As if VF was going to spank them for being bad little girls expressing their personal views of DebM. Now that I think about it VF has protected DebM quite a bit I wonder why?
FreeWillie says:
Maybe VF is afraid DebM will cyberstalk them!!
What is the deal with the middle age vixen avator pics on VF? And the sunglasses? Witness protection plan?
And to Alteralter: I’m not one of the others you insist on. I’m my own person. Do you have multiple personalities?
An anonymous user says:
A few things to which I object:
1. The thread asking Blackberry if she was Gymratt was deleted. It should have been locked, not deleted, and if content such as was discussed in that thread is going to be deleted it should be in the VF Guidelines and the community should be made aware of this important change to the guidelines.
2. Moderators should not be allowed to edit a poster’s post. The moderator should post openly on the thread and ask the poster to edit out the inapproprate content, or even better, issue a warning about the post violating guidelines and that the discussion should not continue in that vein. If VF was Clare’s website and not WWWWendy’s I would not be a member.
I’ve been a VF supporter for five years and I am feeling very, very disheartened by the above two offenses. I can ignore posters who bug me, and I can report those whom I feel are way out of line, but when the community administrators behave the way I’ve described here, I am just overwhelmed with disappointment.
ImWorkinIt says:
What really disappoints me is that Debbie M has fooled everyone there, including the moderators!! It is only a matter of time before they see through her, too. Clearly she is the one with the multiple personality disorder.
An anonymous user says:
I had to laugh in one of Debbie M’s post where she commented on the “fatal attraction” reference to her. She thinks it’s Farrah Fawcett!!!!!! Hahahaha - ummmmm………that would be Glenn Close!!!
GuessWho says:
Umm, actually the Farah Fawcett comment referred to Deb’s earlier photo, genius. Yeah, we get the stupid “Fatal Attraction” joke, ha ha.
fitnessfreak1 says:
Imworkingit knows what she’s talking about. It’s only a matter of time before the moderators figure her out. For the rest of the forum’s sake let’s hope that happens before she ruins that forum too.
HeHeHe with Farrah and Glenn.
ImWorkinIt says:
Hey Guess Who - I mean, Deb - or is it Dana?? Get a life already. Deb’s early photo looked nothing like Farrah - Deb should be so lucky. Now Glenn Close, that might be a better match.
JUU says:
More reinforcement on her sick state. It is indeed very sad that this woman continues to defraud people, and she is good at it. That’s why people don’t see through her right away. Those that have watched her for years KNOW. I feel sorry for those that she is sucking in.
fitnessfreak1 says:
What do you mean imworking it? Those natural beach tossed waves don’t do anything for you? HeHeHe
ImWorkinIt says:
Hahaha!!!! No, they only work for Debbie M!!
JUU says:
WOW I guess I shouldn’t be surprised. Debbie has serious issues but I had no idea that so many people knew of her mental illness. It’s very sad. I hope she doesn’t destroy the VF forum like she did all the others. BTW, fitnessfreak and imworkinit, how do you know her? Is this from where I KNOW HER FROM? Sounds like we all have had the same sort of experience with this lost soul.
andrea says:
Please forgive me I wasn’t around VF last night (Sat.).
What the hell happened that they had to erace another thread?
This seems to be an epidemic over at VF disappearing threads. I read the explaining but I don’t know what was so terrible.
An anonymous user says:
Okay so what threads disappeared? I can’t find the one from last week where someone started a thread about feeling okay to post without being criticized. Was that one? What one left last night?
VentPark Ranger says:
VentPark is in receipt of an email from a confirmed VideoFitness person who is threatening to go to the state Attorney General, and other “appropriate enforcement bodies” unless VentPark removes this entire thread by Friday. She claims that women and seniors are a protected class and that the use of the word “hag” is hate speech. She also didn’t like the comments posted above and she “suspects” that all of the posts were by one person alone.
Does anyone want to weigh in on this subject?
An anonymous user says:
WOW! Andrea earlier wondered why the deletion of the VF threads on VF and I guess we have our answer! I don’t know if the VF person means a member, but perhaps they go and bully the mods with legal action to have threads taken down. Now it becomes clear! But to come here and try the same? Takes a big set of them I suppose.
An anonymous user says:
The definition of hag: An elderly lady whom you do not happen to like; sometimes called, also, a hen, or cat. http://www.answers.com/topic/hag
I guess I will have to call the authorities on my teenage son!
Also: A hag (or crone) is a wizened old woman, or a kind of fairy or goddess having the appearance of such a woman, often found in folklore and children’s tales such as Hansel and Gretel. …
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hag
Maybe I won’t have to call the authorities after all.
If hag was the worst that I’m called, great.
Isn’t this a vent site anyway?
An anonymous user says:
Last time I checked this site was a free speech “Venting” site. I do believe there have been many posters not just one person. I further believe that there have been legitimate claims made of certain people and certain annoying aspects of VF. The venting here was not all about her and her alone.
I guess now we know who has been threatening not just this site but VF as well. God forbid everyone know how self important this person is that she needs to hide all her offenses from both sites.
Wouldn’t the world be great if everyone got to hide every infuriating thing about themselves from everyone and every place. There would be no wars and everyone would love everyone.
If we are not allowed to Vent and Vent Park then why have this site available at all. It would cease to serve its original purpose.
An anonymous user says:
Hello. This is like an episode of 24! There is a thread at VF about why are the threads disappearing and if you look at comment #50 by DebM she states she was contacted by Wendy and to not discuss details but there’s legal something going on, etc. If you go back to the OP here, that was the point wasn’t it? Negativity, control, closing down threads? Just didn’t think “they” thought their reach went to other websites! Posters can be outlandish in their commentary at VF and the mods/Wendy ignore their buddies but then for the rest of us, we get our threads delteted or bashed. Double standards. It’s an outrage that they condone or have the audacity to bully another site ontop of all else. Who died and left them in charge? First Ammendment rights–ever heard of them? Their behavior is indeed haggish. Is it any different than an episode of 24 when factions make threats against groups to get their way or else? I have more to say but I just wanted to vent this right away.
andrea says:
I have to say that if DebM is so sensitive she just doesn’t have to come over to this site and read. Its just like the people who get offended by porn, profane language or other stuff on TV. They just block off the channels that offend them. They control what they want to read, listen and watch. Which is our right as Americans oh I forgot DebM is Canadian. Well here in America we are allowed to block our channels and as humans we have the right to not participate in things that offend us.
So DebM just don’t come over here and allow us the right to vent. Which by the way we are venting in an allowed venting place.
An anonymous user says:
I don’t read anything here that states a fact. Everyone is entitled to their opinion - there is NO LAW against that. However, it IS against the law to hack people’s emails, and to send emails which contents defame businesses (be it skincare companies, exercise video companies or whatever)- that is called “3rd Party Harassment). So whoever is concerned about THESE posts, I would think twice before casting the first stone.
fitnessfreak1 says:
JUU, I don’t know where you know her from, but I know of her from a few other forums she participated in. No, let me correct that because participate isn’t what she does. She tries to take over and control them. She was the know it all skin expert at the other forums and now the know it all fitness expert. If someone posts a different opinion look out! She used to be very rude to some posters on the skin forums just because they didn’t agree with her or like what she said people should use. I was glad when she was gone. Now it looks like it is happening again. Some things and people never change or learn.
JUU says:
Oh Vent Park Ranger, that’s so funny! I wonder how she would feel if the tables were turned and there was a counter suit claimed for hacking peoples emails? Morever, this is a place that is here specifically to vent frustrations - that is the entire purpose! How about the violation of hacking private emails and taking down forums! No wonder threads are disappearing at VF! Ask DY of the SCB all about that and all the threads lost there! I’m sure she would be happy to fill Wendy at VF in and she might be well advised to take heed of what may happen to her.
An anonymous user says:
VentPark Ranger: OMG the VFer requesting you shut down, oh no remove this thread, said women and seniors are protected classes?! So is everyone. I guess if I call my dog a ‘mutt’ this VFer could take me to the Supreme Court. But what concerns me is that if DebM said that Wendy contacted her and there is a plot, this is totally unacceptable, ridiculous, and other words I can’t say. Do WWWendy and her drones think they have world wide web rights? That’s why it’s WWWendy I GET IT NOW! SHE THINKS SHE OWNS THE WORLD WIDE WEB! GOT IT!
Give me a big break!
GuessWho says:
Meow ladies. Saucer of milk?
An anonymous user says:
Thanks anyway - I’m almost full. Would you like a rawhide bone?
GuessWho says:
Mmm, yes please!
An anonymous user says:
I thought so.
JUU says:
To the VentPark Ranger:
I think it is a joke that this “Video Fitness” person wants to sue due to a “hate” post. She is the biggest abuser, as you can see by the below post:
Science Girl says:
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December 9th, 2008 at 12:30 am

This is absolutely, without a shadow of a doubt written by the same person who wrote the “planted” ridiculous reviews on this website with links to purchase Tracy’s workouts at Amazon.
You cannot mistake a person’s writing style, vocabulary and the way they express opinions. Please do not tell me that is only “circumstantial” evidence. Yes it is, but so is a great amount of evidence used in court!
I cannot even try to fathom how anyone could be so absolutely arrogant and insensitive enough to write this crap. Only Tracy Anderson and her like minded posse could write such dribble.
Tracy Anderson is without a doubt the worst insult to the fitness industry I have ever seen and that is saying a great deal.
Comparing her method to religion????????
Insinuating that it does not matter how many people she hurt to get her $$$$. ????????????
Insinuating that the reason women are not all “tiny” is because men have lied to them for years about all of the other forms of exercise EXCEPT the Tracy Anderson method. ????????
Saying that women expect too much from Tracy and should just be happy with her soft core porn gallery …”Guys are happy with her current skimpily clad pictures.” ???????
After reading the article, I would bet my “hotter than hot” body (without any help from Tracy Anderson thank you) that Tracy never lost 30-40 pounds using her “method”.
It is true that anybody who had lost that kind of weight would be able to produce at least one fat picture if for no other reason than to increase sales. I hate having my photo taken and did avoid the camera when I gained 100 pounds from anti-seizure meds…but I can certainly post one disgusting photo if anyone is interested!
If she did lose weight, she had to have lost it through clean eating and/or working out. We all know there is no magic to Tracy Anderson method that causes weight loss. But that does not sell her DVDs!
Why does it matter that she looks hot now? She has implants and hair extensions and is fit. So are 1,000,0000 other hotties in LA. Her body shape and bone structure is genetic since there is no such thing as “rearranging the muscles to create a tinier body structure”…as much as Tracy would have you believe such trash.
The celeb stuff is pure nonsense. Celebs switch trainers as often as they switch thongs and both Madonna and Gweneth have always been tiny framed…Gweneth bordering on anorexic looking.
Any program of cardio and resistance training 2-3 hours a day (admitted volume of training posted on this same website) would have helped Gweneth shed her baby weight. Since she is already very small boned and lacks muscle devvelopment, she is the perfect person for Tracy to manipulate and use to sell workouts. I could make Gweneth look fit and “tiny” with 2-3 hours a day to train her. Any decent trainer could.
There are just no words for the final paragraph in the article:
“Spiritually now you have a present: you all have a blessing to use her DVD products for a low amount of money and regain a body that energizes and delights you. And men who want you happy”
Excuse me while I toss my cookies. (HURL)
You want some real truth about Tracy….
Here is the article regarding Tracy stiffing clients.
http://www.indianapolismonthly.com/article.aspx?id=18612
http://www.monstersandcritics.com/p…dy_Indiana_past
You are not fooling any of the educated crowd Tracy. You may have all of those who do not know how to seperate truth from fiction spellbound, but your theories are all BS and your 15 minutes of fame will be over as as soon as the fickle celebs find the next bandwagon to jump on…so enjoy the ride while it lasts.
An anonymous user says:
So if you were dying would you continue to rant over a DVD? It doesn’t matter if its Tracy’s DVD or any other instructor. Would you waste your precious last moments on ranting and spewing so called scientific information just because you have credentials and degrees? Well someone feels the need to over at VF.
Meanwhile some are telling her she needs to stop because its not healthy to have extra stress at this time (you know she’s dying “seriously”).
If it was me dying the last thing on my mind would be to complain about a stupid inatimate object a DVD. Its only a DVD workout there are millions. Some I like some I don’t, who cares.
I would choose to live more fully with my family and friends. I would focus all my energy on important things like taking care of myself and spending quality time with those I love.
I guess we all do things differently in our last days.
An anonymous user says:
Wait…she’s dying? I haven’t been on VF in a few weeks. Did she give more details? I only found post that said “seriously, I’m dying”. She could have been speaking figuratively.
An anonymous user says:
If anyone cares her post about her illness is:
Post #179
The thread is:
Tracy Anderson coming up on Today Show (video in post #9)
I’m sure you will get all the infor in great detail there.
andrea says:
Sorry the correct Post # is 175.
The thread name:
Tracy Anderson coming up on Today Show (video in post #9)
OffTheCouch says:
That woman is dying the same way the rest of us are. She can’t get enough attention. The illnesses she posted about aren’t fatal - assuming she has them.
An anonymous user says:
Yeah, that’s what I wondered….if she is really dying.
An anonymous user says:
There are many, many holes in her current and previous stories. Many. But now that she’s told the latest one, she’ll probably have free rein to say anything she wants. Sad.
An anonymous user says:
Just when you thought you might finally be rid of her. Your Not. Its a real shame that someone as old as she is has to resort to things like this. I can’t believe she’s done this before and now doing it again. I can’t believe that some are falling for this again.
She really must have no life. But then again I can understand her having nothing if her attitude in real life is anything like on the forum. Who’d want to have anything to do with her?
An anonymous user says:
The only way this woman can have free reign is if people post on her threads. If everyone would just not post on her threads she’d be alone and the thread would go away. Along with her highly important informative knowledgeable scientific assessment of everything in detail ad naseum. I’ve stopped posting on her threads it annoys me her holier than thou attitude. Talking down to everyone because she is the only one who knows anything. She sucks the life out of any thread she gets into.
An anonymous user says:
She’s sucking the life out of VF in general IMHO, but the mods don’t seem to care.
JUU says:
She has been “dying” as long as I’ve known of her, and that’s a LONG time. She was dying on the SB forum, dying on the SCB and now she’s dying on VF. It’s how she gets attention. Ignore her.
An anonymous user says:
JUU: I’m so happy you weighed in. Now Deb can dominate a thread, VF because she is a martyr. The way she “revealed” it was so melodramatic, eh? The funniest is in that thread at VF, people say “Oh, Deb so sorry to hear. Paragraph. So anyway, Tracy Anderson is a dim-wit… blah, blah, blah.”
An anonymous user says:
Yeah, I think she suffers from Munchausen’s Syndrome.
Someone should seriously contact Tracy Anderson and point her to post # 125 in the above VF thread. If that isn’t defamation of character, I don’t know what is.
And to think, Deb had the nerve to contact Ventpark and threaten to sue because she felt HER character was being defamed!!!! That takes a lot of #$!##@.
An anonymous user says:
Maybe that’s how Deb and others stay on so long at VF and can do whatever they want because the y threaten to sue the mods if they don’t get their way.
An anonymous user says:
Deb is very good at manipulation. I’m sure she has the mods fooled. It’s only a matter of time before they figure out “her number”. It happens everywhere she goes.
An anonymous user says:
I say good riddence to DebM. Please leave be gone with you.
I also think that DebM has nerve to talk about Tracy that way on and on til the cows come home and then turn around and try to sue VentPark.
Not that I believe Tracy’s claims but I do like the Mat Workout and have a right to enjoy it without DebM sucking the life out of that too.
fitnessfreak2 says:
Here we go again. This is how this woman gets attention. It’s unfortunate that some kind souls will get sucked into this. Been there and done that.
Before you know it VF will be divided between her supporters and those who see through her. It’s happened before, and it will happen again. The best thing anyone can do is not feed into it and just ignore the posts. When she no longer gets attention, either positive or negative, she will move on.
OffTheCouch says:
It cracks me up that this woman pretends to be some sort of science wizard. The “scientific” information I’ve seen her lecture about can be accessed by anyone who has half a brain cell and knows how to google. She presents as someone special, with special knowledge and who should be treated as a special person. Can you say narcissist? Or is it borderline personality disorder? I’m on the fence. It’s something, based on her photo alone.
JUU, thank you for chiming in. The history you provide cements my initial impressions. It’s interesting to read, and I’m all eyes if you want to share more! Vent your spleen!
I had never even heard of VF or Science Lite Girl until I read her diarrhea all over this board. Since then, I’ve lurked at VF as I actually am interested in fitness DVDs. Another poster was right - science lite girl sucks the life out of many threads of interest. Now that she’s played the death card, she’s getting away with murder. How ironic is that?
fitnessfreak2 says:
OffThe Couch, you’ve hit the nail on the head with narcissistic and borderline personality disorder. It’s funny how some people see through her right away, and other intelligent people get sucked right in and it takes years to see what she’s really all about. It’s easy to see by some of the posts on VF that people are buying this latest BS hook, line, and sinker. I feel sorry for them. They are obviously kind people, and she will use that for all it’s worth.
An anonymous user says:
Also, don’t be surprised to find out that there are “posters” on VF that really do not exist as separate people - they are most likely just Deb posting under an alias to “backup” her opinions. And the “join” date does not matter. She is very calculating and thinks ahead and looks at all angles.
An anonymous user says:
If you go to post #173 she says “that’s all she has to say” about TA. Can we hold her to that? Can we sue her if she talks again?
Did anyone notice how many suggested she start her own blog off VF (hint, hint) and yet she doesn’t use her razor sharp science brain to respond to that. No she ignores it and milks the thread for all it’s worth.
Even her picture looks like her personality.
sjb77 says:
I also noticed that a lot of people asked her to shoot her own routine/work outs - and that they would buy them from her - notice how she failed to respond to that, too!!!
Hmmm……could it be that she doesn’t want them to see the REAL her. Maybe she’s not as fit as she claims to be??
An anonymous user says:
Also let’s not forget that she has selected the rarest of diseases
(2-7 in ONE MILLION people) (how long of a Google search did that take?) so that no one on the VF board can contradict her or find it online. Her “specialist” can say how bad it is and no one will ever meet the specialist so they can continue to be held hostage on her hijack of that TA thread or any other thread.
What about the ’she can’t have the hysterectomy because one slice into a tumor’ would kill her instantly with an Alien movie spewing of death juice. I’m laughing. I’m bad. FIrst of all she can live with the 5-month fibroid (which she refers to as a tumor) like millions of other women including some who have 9mos size fibroids. And most surgeons don’t hack and slice into a round growth that they simply have to detach.
She feels sorry for the TA followers being “taken advantage” of in her book. She is self projecting that she is sorry for all the clueless VFers who blindly follow her.
Which leads me to my last vent…on VF you can’t discuss diet, you can’t discuss the way an instructor looks (why the hell not?), but we can listen ad nausea to DebM and her crazy rantings? And the VF site is to discuss fitness, yet time and time again, you can start reading a thread on topic and it quickly goes off topic with endless stupid discussions of pet cats, pet cats, did I mention pet cats? Or DebM.
There’s some similarity there…putting little hats on your pet cat and tolerating DebM. Thank god this VentPark site exists.
I double dare someone to post on the DebM hijacked thread and tell she’s full of it (not with fibroids, but suggest a colonoscopy up to her brain which could clear out the crap in her.)
An anonymous user says:
Well, I don’t feel quite as hostile towards Deb. I have enjoyed many of her posts, BUT, I will say that I was very skeptical when I read about her dying, and quite frankly, I think most VFers are also skeptical but are being tactful about not posting as much on that thread. I do think she is a woman who enjoys attention and she is most definitely guilty of histrionics, not only with the announcement of her impending death, but also in the past when she’s claimed to “cry” over some posters’ “attack” on her or “bashing” of her posts.
I’m about done with VF - the selective moderating practices, the annoyingly obnoxious and opinionated posters, etc. Yeah, I know on any board moderating decisions are tough and the moderators are human, blah, blah, blah. Here’s a tip….don’t let a certain moderator lock threads, and if the temption to do so is there, dear moderator, pretend that the offending post was posted by one of your buddies. Would you still lock it or edit it or even comment on it then? Or would you conveniently overlook that particular thread?
JUU says:
Look, I don’t want to bad mouth the woman, per se, I just don’t want to see her sucking people in. She’s good at that, very good. She has quite a history of doing just that, that I have witnessed over the past several years. You are absolutely correct, OfftheCouch, that she is narcissistic. She has a severe personality disorder, and perhaps multiple personalities. This death card that she is AGAIN playing is typical of what she does when she isn’t getting enough attention. She’s done it on other forums to get an out pouring of sympathy, support and money, yes money, from people. I really hope that the VF’ers don’t “buy” into her schemes.
An anonymous user says:
Are you serious JUU? She wants money?? THis should be known. Please elaborate before others are swindled. Is it to find a cure?
JUU says:
Dead serious. She tells people that she is dying and that there is a health crisis in Canada so she is helpless and left alone in the gutter to die. You know, very dramatic and all. Just be careful people. Don’t let her manipulate you, and DO NOT send her money.
An anonymous user says:
So really she’s an Internet con artist to the extent she tries to become invaluable to a board (at least in her mind, but I’m sure she is occasionally helpful) then she lays out the illness, gets the money, finally gets kicked off the board and finds another sucker board. Interesting.
JUU says:
Let’s just say it’s happened before. Be warned and be careful.
fitnessfreak2 says:
She has received money from people she’s never personally met in the past. She has said that herself. Take that for what it’s worth and proceed with caution.
OffTheCouch says:
Geez. Although I am relatively new to Deb and VF, I’ve seen these things happen on other boards. I’ve seen the “poor me” stories and even heard of solicitations for money. Unfortunately, message boards create a unique opportunity for such con artists. Deb’s bossiness as well as her controlling and histrionic behavior serve to divide the board and it’s sad. I agree with you fitness freak, proceeding with caution is the way to go.
It appears that since she’s played the death card, the mods are likely to treat her delicately. Perhaps they believe she is really fighting the good fight and all that. It is impossible for me to believe that if that woman had even some of the illnesses she claims that she would be able to exercise at the levels she states. My own mother had some of her illnesses, and over time her mobility was so limited she found it difficult to open a jar. It is so obvious to me that her story doesn’t add up. It appears some at VF are aware of this, while others flock to embrace her. I hope they don’t send her money to their own detriment.
I don’t even disagree with some of Deb’s comments about TA. But couldn’t she say it in a less obnoxious way? I’m in the camp of thinking that what Tracy Anderson says is bunk, but I enjoy her workout DVDs and ignore the rest. Somehow, Deb can’t let things go at that. And she even does TA’s workouts herself!?
fitnessfreak2 says:
It comes as no surprise that Deb has invented more drama for herself on VF. The latest is that she has “obsessed stalkers” who feed off of her personal life. The only one feeding off of her fantasy life is her.
When she was a member of another forum her story was that one of the forum members threatened her life. Will it never end with this woman! There are no death threats, there are no stalkers, there is no obsession anywhere but in her mind. The bottom line is she’s played these cards too often on too many forums and people who know her see right through it and are calling her on it. End of story.
An anonymous user says:
Deb seems to have taken a leave of absence from the VF board, unless she’s posting under a different name. I don’t think so, because her “style” is recognizable. She may be wreaking havoc at another board and shaking down other unsuspecting posters. Frankly, I will enjoy the vacation from her as long as it lasts. Good riddance.
An anonymous user says:
I for one am glad not to see her on the boards. Her know it all responses get annoying after a while. Good riddance to her. Hope she stays away. I hope she didn’t take peoples money with her death watch scenario. Hopefully people could spot the scam of her illness rants.
An anonymous user says:
She baaaack! Why in the world would someone mail her court documents about Tracy Anderson? She claims they were sent to her unsolicited by the person who filed the lawsuit. How on earth would a person suing TA even know who Deb M is, let alone have her mailing address? It’s ridiculous.
I wonder if she is jealous of TA, who she believes is the ultimate scammer, because TA has found success and fame. Deb’s fame is limited to the forums she proliferates.
FreeWillie says:
Hey what’s the link on VF? I want to see this! I thought she was near death? Anyway, I don’t want to go thru all those posts so let me know her latest.
OffTheCouch says:
http://forum.videofitness.com/showthread.php?t=135140
It the thread about TA’s new treadmill workout.
FreeWillie says:
Read it. Just like the OP here said, there’s a VF post, Deb swoops in with her nuttiness, others protest (this time though they got some good digs in) and mommy Wendy swoops in with a no-no only AFTER Deb craps everywhere and gets upset.
What happened to Deb dying?
JUU says:
Just typical Deb drama. Nothing changes over the years. It does amaze me that Wendy doesn’t clue in.
An anonymous user says:
Is WWWendy afraid of Deb or something? Deb violates the VF guidelines herself, but doesn’t get the smackdown that others do.
I’m dying to ask Deb why the person who supposedly sent her the lawsuit did so, and how they knew her and her contact info. I’d probably just get a reprimand, so I won’t bother.
FreeWillie says:
Uh hello?! Of course Wendy shakes in her boots over Deb. All Deb does is investigate, litigate, snoop, cause trouble. You betcha she threatens Wendy so Deb does get a free pass. Instead of worrying about TA Deb should have found Nicole Brown Simpson’s killer.
And of course Deb contacted that Glen guy who is all over the Internet complaining to everyone about TA. Deb contacted him, and he spilled his guts and told her where to get stuff. I like her made up word “outplant.”
JUU says:
She has an answer for everything. There’s no point. I also can’t understand why Wendy lets her get away with so much. It’s sure not fair to the honest ones on the forum.
An anonymous user says:
Good grief, she contacted Glynn Barber? From what I’ve read, he’s not glued together so well himself. He’s whined and sniveled all over the internet. And he doesn’t seem very bright either. I shouldn’t be surprised.
People on that forum have a right to question Deb’s BS claims. It’s a shame that those who dare get scolded.
Wendy is a fool to be afraid of Deb. Whatever.
An anonymous user says:
Okay, so Deb hasn’t been around in awhile. Last I heard she was dying. Well, this other Deb, with the screen name sciencelady & with very similar workout tastes and posting style as DebbieM from VF, goes and posts on Tracie Long’s forum, offends almost everyone there, then denies being the same DebbieM. She admits to posting on VF but she says she is not DebbieM, and even goes so far as to check when was the last time that DebbieM posted. That seals it for me. She is a compulsive liar and I now believe everything that was posted about her here. I wonder if WWWendy politely asked to get lost or if she got lost of her own accord so as to lend credibility to her “I’m dying” claims. I also think she lied about her avatar on VF. Looks nothing like the many pictures Deb had posted in the “show yourself” thread of a few years ago.
Pandora says:
Yes, I’m now a believer as well. I was so sympathetic to Deb on VF and totally fell for her “Poor me, I’m dying!” shtick… now on Tracie’s forum she has the *audacity* to say she’s never had anything other than a garden variety cold. What nerve!! Does she not know we’d know EXACTLY who she is?! I don’t know about her avatar; I’ve no idea what she looks like. But it is a very, very, VERY creepy thing to fake a fatal illness in order to get attention. Absolutely disgusting!!!
JUU says:
Glad to know people are wising up to her. Where is this forum of “Tracie Long” that you are referring to?
An anonymous user says:
OMG, just how she described all the equipment and fitness toys she has and how she loves functional fitness, blah, blah, blah, and the fact that her posts were so verbose and pissed everyone off, LOL. Using the name science lady, it was as if she was challenging everyone to call her on it.
JUU says:
I went and read some of the posts at Tracie Long’s forum. It is, without a doubt, Debbie M. No doubt. Right down to the writing style including the way she signs off, “Best Deb”. You all realize that this woman has a serious Multiple Personality Disorder. She seriously is very mentally ill.
An anonymous user says:
Now that DebM/ScienceGirl has been discovered/uncovered at Tracy Anderson, Tracie Long and VF she’ll have to find another forum to go to. With all that intelligence she doesn’t know how to change her writing style so we little people wouldn’t discover her. How sad for him/her/it.