Responses on: EXTREMELY selfish… http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2009/01/15/extremely-selfish/ Sun, 20 May 2012 04:36:13 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: smalltownbull http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2009/01/15/extremely-selfish/#comment-2415 smalltownbull Mon, 13 Apr 2009 06:04:28 +0000 http://www.ventpark.com/?p=409#comment-2415 OMG all men are pigs there is no hope for us women.  All we do is slave over them!! Hoping and wishing for a good man!! OMG all men are pigs there is no hope for us women.  All we do is slave over them!! Hoping and wishing for a good man!!

]]> By: constantlyblue http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2009/01/15/extremely-selfish/#comment-1688 constantlyblue Wed, 04 Mar 2009 03:39:55 +0000 http://www.ventpark.com/?p=409#comment-1688 I am in a very similar situation. I work and go to school full time, and I work extremely hard for my money. I do everything for my boyfriend. I get him anything he wants, and I do it all in an attempt to make him happy. He doesn't go to school, but he works full time and makes much more than me. However, after getting him about a 600 dollar birthday present, all he got me was a hat and gloves. For Christmas, I spent maybe 300 on various things, and he just got me one DVD. We've been together for three years, and he is constantly asking me to get him money orders, to give him bus fare, to buy him food, or to buy him material things. I get nothing out of it. He is completely immature and entirely selfish. You definitely need to get out. I am in a very similar situation. I work and go to school full time, and I work extremely hard for my money. I do everything for my boyfriend. I get him anything he wants, and I do it all in an attempt to make him happy. He doesn’t go to school, but he works full time and makes much more than me. However, after getting him about a 600 dollar birthday present, all he got me was a hat and gloves. For Christmas, I spent maybe 300 on various things, and he just got me one DVD. We’ve been together for three years, and he is constantly asking me to get him money orders, to give him bus fare, to buy him food, or to buy him material things. I get nothing out of it. He is completely immature and entirely selfish. You definitely need to get out.

]]> By: MercuryPDX http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2009/01/15/extremely-selfish/#comment-800 MercuryPDX Thu, 15 Jan 2009 07:15:37 +0000 http://www.ventpark.com/?p=409#comment-800 By your post, it appears that you already know the answer to your question and are looking for people to just confirm it; I'll be brief. Relationships are give and take but yours is very one-sided. You THINK he cares, but based on what you wrote I don't think he does. You're not sharing a life together, you are blindly handing over yours. The tears he used to manipulate you were not because he was afraid of losing you as his girlfriend, but you as his "mother"/caretaker/provider/source of sex. Unless he is so good in bed that you don't mind being treated like (or acting like) his mother, <strong>dump him without delay</strong>. That's not a boyfriend you are clinging onto; it's an immature child who has no clue about what a relationship entails other than sex and your servitude. You can do better than that. By your post, it appears that you already know the answer to your question and are looking for people to just confirm it; I’ll be brief.

Relationships are give and take but yours is very one-sided. You THINK he cares, but based on what you wrote I don’t think he does. You’re not sharing a life together, you are blindly handing over yours.

The tears he used to manipulate you were not because he was afraid of losing you as his girlfriend, but you as his “mother”/caretaker/provider/source of sex.

Unless he is so good in bed that you don’t mind being treated like (or acting like) his mother, dump him without delay.

That’s not a boyfriend you are clinging onto; it’s an immature child who has no clue about what a relationship entails other than sex and your servitude. You can do better than that.

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