Responses on: Heartbroken and don’t know what to do http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2009/01/12/heartbroken-and-dont-know-what-to-do/ Sun, 20 May 2012 04:35:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: heideishere http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2009/01/12/heartbroken-and-dont-know-what-to-do/#comment-3099 heideishere Thu, 21 May 2009 08:03:10 +0000 http://www.ventpark.com/?p=408#comment-3099 This won't help any but. I can relate. My ex's mother seperated us when we were young. we were soulmates...but no longer are time heals all. and i am married to someone else now and he is with someone too only time can tell my dear This won’t help any but.
I can relate. My ex’s mother seperated us when we were young.
we were soulmates…but no longer are
time heals all.
and i am married to someone else now
and he is with someone too

only time can tell my dear

]]> By: jen http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2009/01/12/heartbroken-and-dont-know-what-to-do/#comment-793 jen Tue, 13 Jan 2009 22:11:11 +0000 http://www.ventpark.com/?p=408#comment-793 Thank you two both for the replies and not make me feel more stupid haha. I've realized that as long as he is with her, he will not think of me. It's just super hard to not think about this every minute of the day and not let it consume my life. Thank you two both for the replies and not make me feel more stupid haha. I’ve realized that as long as he is with her, he will not think of me. It’s just super hard to not think about this every minute of the day and not let it consume my life.

]]> By: thetaman http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2009/01/12/heartbroken-and-dont-know-what-to-do/#comment-788 thetaman Tue, 13 Jan 2009 06:03:57 +0000 http://www.ventpark.com/?p=408#comment-788 I agree with the poster above.  When you're relatively new to the dating game and you're in love, it's very hard to imagine that there could be anyone else out there for you.  And the idea that there could be someone even better than the one you are currently in love with seems completely impossible.  But as hard as it may be, you really should start hanging out with other guys and going on dates with the ones you like.  You have nothing to lose.  This guy you're waiting for is dating someone else, so this is your chance to date other people too.  Then you can make a better decision about what you want and what's best for you because you'll have had more experiences to choose from.  If it's meant to be between you and this guy, then you will both find yourselves single at the same time in the future and you can get back together then.  But don't waste your life waiting for it when there are so many other great opportunities waiting for you in the meantime. I agree with the poster above.  When you’re relatively new to the dating game and you’re in love, it’s very hard to imagine that there could be anyone else out there for you.  And the idea that there could be someone even better than the one you are currently in love with seems completely impossible. 

But as hard as it may be, you really should start hanging out with other guys and going on dates with the ones you like.  You have nothing to lose.  This guy you’re waiting for is dating someone else, so this is your chance to date other people too.  Then you can make a better decision about what you want and what’s best for you because you’ll have had more experiences to choose from. 

If it’s meant to be between you and this guy, then you will both find yourselves single at the same time in the future and you can get back together then.  But don’t waste your life waiting for it when there are so many other great opportunities waiting for you in the meantime.

]]> By: MercuryPDX http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2009/01/12/heartbroken-and-dont-know-what-to-do/#comment-786 MercuryPDX Tue, 13 Jan 2009 04:31:10 +0000 http://www.ventpark.com/?p=408#comment-786 First, you're not pathetic. Matters of the heart are very hard to keep in check. Second, stop waiting for him and start dating other people. By not doing so, you're denying yourself the chance to meet someone else who may be better for you. If it's meant to be, in time it will happen. You will always have the time you spent together, and you will always be friends. First, you’re not pathetic. Matters of the heart are very hard to keep in check.

Second, stop waiting for him and start dating other people. By not doing so, you’re denying yourself the chance to meet someone else who may be better for you.

If it’s meant to be, in time it will happen. You will always have the time you spent together, and you will always be friends.

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