Responses on: How can I tell me that my boyfriend wants to be with me or just staying there for convienence? http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2008/12/29/how-can-i-tell-me-that-my-boyfriend-wants-to-be-with-me-or-just-staying-there-for-convienence/ Sun, 20 May 2012 04:34:57 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: thetaman http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2008/12/29/how-can-i-tell-me-that-my-boyfriend-wants-to-be-with-me-or-just-staying-there-for-convienence/#comment-701 thetaman Tue, 30 Dec 2008 00:40:37 +0000 http://www.ventpark.com/?p=399#comment-701 There's a lot of things that could cause a guy to back off like that.  It doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't love you.  It might just mean that he needs some space for whatever reason.  Or maybe the two of you just got into a routine and drifted apart naturally.  Don't tell him you need to spend more time with him.  That could push him away further because you'll come across as needy.  Instead, ask him out on a date, or cook a special dinner for the two of you, or tell him you'd like to go on a vacation and would he come with you.  Anything to break up the routine and put some spark back into the relationship. There’s a lot of things that could cause a guy to back off like that.  It doesn’t necessarily mean that he doesn’t love you.  It might just mean that he needs some space for whatever reason.  Or maybe the two of you just got into a routine and drifted apart naturally. 

Don’t tell him you need to spend more time with him.  That could push him away further because you’ll come across as needy.  Instead, ask him out on a date, or cook a special dinner for the two of you, or tell him you’d like to go on a vacation and would he come with you. 

Anything to break up the routine and put some spark back into the relationship.

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