By: findkjt

findkjt — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 20:16:42 +0000

I understand that you need to guard your heart, you certainly don’t want to get hurt again! No matter what anyone says, we all have jealousy somewhere in us, even if it’s just a smidge. I have learned, however, to never, ever go looking for the truth, unless I am are ready to handle it. You have think about that and it will help you not dwell so much on things that may drive you a little bonkers and worse than that, drive your guy away. Checking his texts and emails and wanting control over them is not something you will ever be able to obtain, so you need to give that control up, perhaps ask God to help you have the strength to do it. All of life’s issues are about control, when we lose control, we get ticked off. So we must learn coping mechanisms; and one of them is to surrender the things you cannot change to acceptance. I hope things get better for you, I really do. Peace–KT

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