http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2008/11/27/my-boyfriend-ditched-me/ Sun, 20 May 2012 04:32:08 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2008/11/27/my-boyfriend-ditched-me/#comment-540 Reviewer Sat, 29 Nov 2008 14:47:01 +0000 http://www.ventpark.com/?p=376#comment-540 The first reply said it very well.  if this guy arranged or agreed to have this chick fly from US to India, well there's your answer.  he's into her and keeping you on the side for a plaything.  now he may want to have both of you but he'll keep doing this over and over...doing other girls.  Get out now and figure out why you'd want to stay with a jerk who doesn't treat you well.  do you want a jerk or do you want respect?  your decision. The first reply said it very well.  if this guy arranged or agreed to have this chick fly from US to India, well there’s your answer.  he’s into her and keeping you on the side for a plaything.  now he may want to have both of you but he’ll keep doing this over and over…doing other girls.  Get out now and figure out why you’d want to stay with a jerk who doesn’t treat you well.  do you want a jerk or do you want respect?  your decision.

]]> http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2008/11/27/my-boyfriend-ditched-me/#comment-539 thetaman Fri, 28 Nov 2008 06:44:42 +0000 http://www.ventpark.com/?p=376#comment-539 If he says he loves the other girl and not you, take the hint.  No matter how much you love him, he's not the right guy for you.  Believe me, once they start straying, they're not worth keeping.  So go find yourself someone who deserves you and ditch this guy.  It's always hard to do when you're in the middle of it all and you love him and can't stand the idea of being alone.  Just remember, if you leave him now, you may be miserable for a short while until you find someone new.  But if you stay with him, you'll be miserable for a long time -- because he's going to continue straying and treating you poorly and so on.  So do it like a band-aid -- tear it off quick and move on. If he says he loves the other girl and not you, take the hint.  No matter how much you love him, he’s not the right guy for you.  Believe me, once they start straying, they’re not worth keeping.  So go find yourself someone who deserves you and ditch this guy.  It’s always hard to do when you’re in the middle of it all and you love him and can’t stand the idea of being alone.  Just remember, if you leave him now, you may be miserable for a short while until you find someone new.  But if you stay with him, you’ll be miserable for a long time — because he’s going to continue straying and treating you poorly and so on.  So do it like a band-aid — tear it off quick and move on.

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