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my boyfriend ditched me
(1,341 views)i was having relationship with my boyfriend since last 5 years,we were from same college,i love him alot.but one year back he started chatting with a girl in his office,never saw that girl,because that girl is in USA and he in india.they both were from same company.he said me one day he was in love with that girl,but after some days he said me that he was wrong he love me only.few days back he met with that girl,that girl came to india.again he said me he love that girl not me,that girl also knows everything that he had a girlfriend,but still she didnt stop talking to my boyfriend,i cant leave my boyfriend as i love him a lot,can u plz sugggest me what can i do??
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i was having relationship with my boyfriend since last 5 years,we were from same college,i love him alot.but one year back he started chatting with a girl in his office,never saw that girl,because that girl is in USA and he in india.they both were from same company.he said me one day he was in love with that girl,but after some days he said me that he was wrong he love me only.few days back he met with that girl,that girl came to india.again he said me he love that girl not me,that girl also knows everything that he had a girlfriend,but still she didnt stop talking to my boyfriend,i cant leave my boyfriend as i love him a lot,can u plz sugggest me what can i do??
An anonymous user says:
If he says he loves the other girl and not you, take the hint. No matter how much you love him, he’s not the right guy for you. Believe me, once they start straying, they’re not worth keeping. So go find yourself someone who deserves you and ditch this guy. It’s always hard to do when you’re in the middle of it all and you love him and can’t stand the idea of being alone. Just remember, if you leave him now, you may be miserable for a short while until you find someone new. But if you stay with him, you’ll be miserable for a long time — because he’s going to continue straying and treating you poorly and so on. So do it like a band-aid — tear it off quick and move on.
An anonymous user says:
The first reply said it very well. if this guy arranged or agreed to have this chick fly from US to India, well there’s your answer. he’s into her and keeping you on the side for a plaything. now he may want to have both of you but he’ll keep doing this over and over…doing other girls. Get out now and figure out why you’d want to stay with a jerk who doesn’t treat you well. do you want a jerk or do you want respect? your decision.