Responses on: My Story http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2008/11/25/my-story/ Sun, 20 May 2012 04:31:43 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: kolobus http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2008/11/25/my-story/#comment-2250 kolobus Sat, 04 Apr 2009 21:37:23 +0000 http://www.ventpark.com/?p=371#comment-2250 <img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-489" src="../../../../../../wp-content/uploads/2009/04/1065402215_m2.jpg" alt="" width="170" height="127" />well first thing you should have known he would cheat on you since he was cheating on his WIFE with you.. what goes around comes around.. and for all you fucking cheaters.. go get a gallon of gasolinbe puor it over yourself and smoke a cigg as you burn to death.. mmk well first thing you should have known he would cheat on you since he was cheating on his WIFE with you.. what goes around comes around.. and for all you fucking cheaters.. go get a gallon of gasolinbe puor it over yourself and smoke a cigg as you burn to death.. mmk

]]> By: Conb http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2008/11/25/my-story/#comment-648 Conb Thu, 11 Dec 2008 09:25:28 +0000 http://www.ventpark.com/?p=371#comment-648 Yesterday I was told that the woman I went to see's husband has committed suicide; I believe that if it's true this man must have had other issues, but I can't help but to feel a bit of guilt. Yesterday I was told that the woman I went to see’s husband has committed suicide; I believe that if it’s true this man must have had other issues, but I can’t help but to feel a bit of guilt.

]]> By: Conb http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2008/11/25/my-story/#comment-549 Conb Mon, 01 Dec 2008 09:34:03 +0000 http://www.ventpark.com/?p=371#comment-549 Thank you but I was thinking that maybe I should go see a physiologist to find out why it’s so hard for me to let go of this relationship.  The way I feel now is that I don’t think I want to get into another relationship, don’t feel like going through the trouble of caring for someone again, and could be that I’m scared of getting hurt again. Thank you but I was thinking that maybe I should go see a physiologist to find out why it’s so hard for me to let go of this relationship.  The way I feel now is that I don’t think I want to get into another relationship, don’t feel like going through the trouble of caring for someone again, and could be that I’m scared of getting hurt again.

]]> By: marlowedh http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2008/11/25/my-story/#comment-547 marlowedh Sun, 30 Nov 2008 23:42:13 +0000 http://www.ventpark.com/?p=371#comment-547 I agree with mamagrimtribe, you need to fully separate yourself from this man. I am very concerned at his response to your confronting him about the teacher/papers lie. To say that a woman's husband might hurt her and it is all *your* fault reveals a highly developed sense of narcissism and a healthy imagination for physical violence towards women. For whatever reason, whether it is unresolved guilt over leaving your husband, or a fantasy of who you thought this man might be (but is clearly not) for your own mental well-being you need to block him from your life in everyway. He wants to control and manipulate you, not love you. Think of all the other wonderful things you could be doing with your time rather than stressing out about what he is or isn't doing. Don't waste anymore time or energy on this loser.  And don't beat yourself up for having tried with him. Just move completely and irevocably on! I agree with mamagrimtribe, you need to fully separate yourself from this man. I am very concerned at his response to your confronting him about the teacher/papers lie. To say that a woman’s husband might hurt her and it is all *your* fault reveals a highly developed sense of narcissism and a healthy imagination for physical violence towards women. For whatever reason, whether it is unresolved guilt over leaving your husband, or a fantasy of who you thought this man might be (but is clearly not) for your own mental well-being you need to block him from your life in everyway. He wants to control and manipulate you, not love you. Think of all the other wonderful things you could be doing with your time rather than stressing out about what he is or isn’t doing. Don’t waste anymore time or energy on this loser.  And don’t beat yourself up for having tried with him. Just move completely and irevocably on!

]]> By: MamaGrimtribe http://www.ventpark.com/vent/2008/11/25/my-story/#comment-525 MamaGrimtribe Tue, 25 Nov 2008 12:38:26 +0000 http://www.ventpark.com/?p=371#comment-525 *hug* *hug* *hug* Thank you for not being one of the desparate and sad Sallies who wants to "change him" or let him come back - believing the lie of "I'll never do it again". Obviously there's something seriously psychological happening with the guy. I've lived with guys who would look you dead in the face and lie with the proof in front of them.   Sounds like time to change your phone number, your address and a little bit of attitude. I agree with helping a sister avoid a dog, but it's not your job. Trust that these other ladies will figure him out themselves. Take your life into your hands and do what you need to, to excise the rotten part of your apple. I lost my favorite nick having to disappear from an idiot ex. New email address and IM name would be a good idea as well. If he absolutely refuses to leave you alone, it's time to check into stalker laws in your state. You might consider seeing if you can get a restraining order. It will send a serious back-off message.  You deserve love on your terms. Good luck, honey. It's time to re-invent yourself without him. Have fun with it... stretch your new butterfly wings and go fly! *hug*
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Thank you for not being one of the desparate and sad Sallies who wants to “change him” or let him come back - believing the lie of “I’ll never do it again”. Obviously there’s something seriously psychological happening with the guy. I’ve lived with guys who would look you dead in the face and lie with the proof in front of them.
 
Sounds like time to change your phone number, your address and a little bit of attitude. I agree with helping a sister avoid a dog, but it’s not your job. Trust that these other ladies will figure him out themselves. Take your life into your hands and do what you need to, to excise the rotten part of your apple. I lost my favorite nick having to disappear from an idiot ex. New email address and IM name would be a good idea as well.

If he absolutely refuses to leave you alone, it’s time to check into stalker laws in your state. You might consider seeing if you can get a restraining order. It will send a serious back-off message. 

You deserve love on your terms. Good luck, honey. It’s time to re-invent yourself without him. Have fun with it… stretch your new butterfly wings and go fly!

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